Archive for April, 2008

Off to Spain

Yes, you read it right. I am going to Spain. Five days ago, if you had asked me where I would be next week, the last thing I would have said would have been Spain…well maybe not the last thing. 

Regardless, for the next 6 days, I’ll be in Barcelona and Valencia Spain. There is much that I could say about the trip…but here is what is on the top of my head for now: God, I desperately want to hear your voice. I want to know your heart. I want to break for your people. I am recklessly pursuing any glimpse I see of You. I will do anything, go anywhere, talk to anyone, and love anybody to reveal your goodness, love, and grace. 

So…I’m off to Spain.

Our Last Update Letter

We just sent out a new prayer update thing…had some big and cool news in it. If you would like to see it, send me an email using the contact thing up above. I had a bit of a problem with my address book when I accidentally synced my phone’s addresses over my computer’s. Oops…so I lost some email addresses! 

later!

I’ve always like this song but…

I know that U2 is the trendiest band to listen to if you are Christian but like secular music better than the predictable, four-chorded, 3 part harmony music that is the step-child of our faith, (whoops…wasn’t planning on going there) but I really do like U2. I don’t make any apologies for it. I wish that I could write like Bono and play the guitar like The Edge. but alas…I resign myself to practice. 

The lyrics to this song really caught me this morning. I’ve always liked them, but they got me today. 

 

Miracle Drug

U2 - How to Dismantle an Atomic Bomb

I want to trip inside your head
Spend the day there…
To hear the things you haven’t said
And see what you might see

I want to hear you when you call
Do you feel anything at all?
I want to see your thoughts take shape
And walk right out

Freedom has a scent
Like the top of a new born baby’s head

The songs are in your eyes
I see them when you smile
I’ve had enough I’m not giving up
On a miracle drug

Of science and the human heart
There is no limit
There is no failure here sweetheart
Just when you quit…

I am you and you are mine
Love makes nonsense of space
And time… will disappear
Love and logic keep us clear
Reason is on our side, love…

The songs are in your eyes
I see them when you smile
I’ve had enough of romantic love
I’d give it up, yeah, I’d give it up
For a miracle, a miracle drug, a miracle drug

God I need your help tonight

Beneath the noise
Below the din
I hear a voice
It’s whispering
In science and in medicine
“I was a stranger
You took me in”

The songs are in your eyes
I see them when you smile
I’ve had enough of romantic love
I’d give it up, yeah, I’d give it up
For a miracle, miracle drug

Miracle, miracle drug

Feedburner

I’ve finally taken another step in my nerdom…I’ve added feedburner to my blog. I barely know what this is other than it helps me keep better track of whose blocking me…that’s blog stalking in case you were wondering. 

 

So if you’ve subscribed to the old feed..all 2 of you…could you update to the feedburner one? It would really help me keep better track of you and ultimately try to market myself out to you more effectively. 

 

If you’ve never seen a feed, and I don’t mean like when a guy feeds like a 1,000 hunting dogs at the same time, then click the little orange icon next to the words “Urban Idealist Posts” and see what happens. Your guess is as good as mine.  

 

Thanks!

How to Kill a Movement: Part 3…an Ode to the best admin ever: David Nelson*

How to Kill a Movement Part 3: Refuse to provide administrative help and let it suffocate under it’s own weight

 

Of all the things on the list, I think this one may be the most ‘unMovement’ feeling for most. Here is the reality: There is a big difference between starting a movement and sustaining a movement. Administration is not sexy, does not inspire most people, does not get the earthly praise and is sometimes low on the gift list of leaders who are out beginning the movements.

 

Let me say from experience…administration is very important to long-term movement sustainability. If a leader is thinking long-term, then administration has to be included in that strategy. Here’s how I see it:

 

Movements are like fast moving boats in stormy water. Most types of people that get on these boats are the people who are bent towards looking out past the bow. They ask questions like: Where are we going? What do we have to navigate? What is the best way to get where we want to go? Their eyes and hearts are bent towards what is to come. And that’s a good thing.

 

The truth is that while going through this storm, people fall off the boat. People get left behind. Some people are even trying to get on, while others are just barely hanging on. I see administrative roles looking out for this stuff and looking out for solutions to the problems caused by the nature of the storm…not to mention looking at the map to make sure we are going in the right direction…and checking the engine to make sure it’s not going to explode! Admin gifted people can help answer (and ask) questions like: Is this the best way to get where we want to go? How can we get through the storm better? Who has fallen off and how can we throw them a life-preserver? Who is trying to get on this boat?

 

If a movement is truly healthy it will grow. And the more people that get on the boat, the harder it is to maneuver, operate, repair, and keep people from falling off. Admin people have the giftedness to help a movement expand their boat.

 

The people and the way that they think can (and should) become the backbone of a movement. They keep it standing up tall, not lying limp on the ground. So if you are wanting to begin, have started, or are in the thick of a movement, remember that there is a reason that God gave us all different gifts and that each one has value. See the strategy behind having a healthy admin structure because if you don’t prepare for it now, it could kill you in the future! Also, admin people can also be visionary and gifted not only in tasks and processes…listen to and look for them.

 

A good example of this is found in Acts…the disciples appointed some other people to take on the ‘admin process’ of distributing bread among the widows. One of those men was James. Who in a chapter later gives one of the most hard hitting talks recorded in the book of Acts…and ends up being killed for it. But his original task? Bread distributor. We never know how God may have or will gift those in our movements.

 

Administrate…do it. Find people to do…or we run the risk of killing our movements under their own momentum. 

 

Dave is a great friend of Jen and I’s and was my admin back in the day…truly an amazing person that I had the privilege of serving with. He was a great admin, but an even greater friend. I would work with him again in a heartbeat…and he made some dang good coffee! 

I am Thankful…

My friend Lisa posted a list on her blog about things that she is thankful for…and her gratitude was contagious enough to make me want to do the same! So here we go!

1. I am thankful that God has provided for Jen and I through this crazy time in our lives. 

2. I am thankful that we have family that is always encouraging us to become who God wants us to be.

3. I am thankful that I found a volleyball team to be on while we’re in the States.

4. I am thankful that we have one-way tickets back to Europe. 

5. I am thankful that God has given me a love for music.

6. I am thankful that my wife is my best friend.

7. I am thankful that my little girl smiles a lot!

8. I am thankful that God’s timing is always better than mine.

9. I am thankful that I can learn from other people.

10. I am thankful that we live in exciting times for the Church. 

 

*if you are a blogger I think it would be cool to start a movement of gratitude by posting your own list!

How to Kill a Movement Part 2

How to Kill a Movement Part 2:  Demand Conformity in Methodology

When driving in your car, have you ever thought how many different ways there are to get to the place you are going? Sometimes I sit in my car nearly paralyzed because I’m strategizing the best way to get from point A to B. Sometimes I take off in the direction I think will be the fastest just to get stuck in traffic. Or other times it’ll end up taking way longer than I thought. But if I just keep on driving, I get there eventually.

Movement thinking is a lot like this…and so is the art of church planting. There are many ways to get to the same place. There are many ways to make a difference in the Kingdom. When we begin to believe that there is only one right way, we fool ourselves, especially when we are the author of THE way. There may be the fastest way under certain given circumstances, but that doesn’t mean it’s the only way for all of time. 

 

So, if you want to kill a movement, here are some ideas to building conformity that will help you on your way to nowhere:

1. Control the big box.

Trusting other leaders is the last thing you want to do. This will show them that you believe that God speaks to them…meaning not only you. So, if you start letting some people think outside of the big box you run the risk of losing all control. You don’t want that. You want to give people smaller boxes to think outside of, while you control the big box. He who controls the big box wins the battle of conformity. 

 

2. Make sure everybody knows the right way 

Forget the idea of values. Values schmalues. Rules are what you want. You want people to know clearly there is a right way and wrong way. And you want people to look to your rules to know what the difference is. You need to know what the right way is…but don’t be clear what that is because it’s fun to watch people squirm trying to figure it out. They just need to know that you know. And you are watching. Period.

 

3. Lastly, and most importantly, never admit failure.

In order for people to continue to trust your ways, you can never admit anything remotely close to failure. People can not lose faith in the system. There should be no room ever given to doubt the Master Plan. Even if you feel like the world is falling down around you…smile, use lots of Christian sounding words, and stick to the Master Plan. (I even recommend calling this the ‘Master’s Plan’ as that makes it sound cleverly spiritual.) Never, ever, ever do anything to make somebody think that there needs to be a solution, because, of course, there was never a problem with the Master Plan. Remember, smile…a lot. If somebody is not really looking, it can go a long way.

 

Ugh…Even though I laughed out loud typing this, I now feel sick as this goes against every fiber in my being. I really, really hope nobody read this and thought I was serious! 

 

The ‘gospel of spending’

Here is a link to a BBC article entitled: US Consumer Mood at 26-Year Low

When I first read the title, I thought to myself, “Oh, that’s good” because I generally frown on (my own) consumerism…and it’s good to know that the rest of the US is trying to quit too! Unfortunately, the tone of the article was not as I expected. And I read a quote that pretty much sums up my frustration with our culture and why we (I) have an insatiable appetite for consuming nothing and everything. 

 

With consumer sentiment hit further by high food and fuel prices, it is starting to hit retail spending, which is the main bedrock of the US economy.

 

Retail spending is the bedrock of our economy. Retail spending is the bedrock of our economy??? Shopping? It’s no wonder why a new shopping mall is the center of every suburban sprawl neighborhood! It’s no wonder why so many resources are are spent to understand what and how we consume. It’s no wonder that we are being brainwashed into believing that ’stuff’ will adequately define us and give us meaning! The success of our economy is based upon whether or not we consume…who cares what we consume, as long as we consume something! Who cares if younger and younger youth get ear deep in personal debt to consume, as long as we consume something! Who cares if the message that our kids learn is to spend and spend…it makes the world go ’round. I get grossed out thinking about this. 

 

I understand that goods and services must be traded in order for an economy to grow and be successful. But it is the way in which the ‘gospel of spending’ is preached…or is infused…that bothers me so much. 

 

All the while, our resources, energy, lives, and the environment are spent in order to keep the economy of spending alive and kicking. Unfortunately, this is going to be a post where I rant and rave, but offer no solutions! If you want to watch something interesting check out this video:

The Story of Stuff